--- title: Finding Silver Linings description: Looking on the bright side even when things go wrong is a key component of optimism, which research links to lower rates of depression. image: https://www.centreforoptimism.com/hubfs/Center%20of%20Optimism%20Assets/Lighthouse%20on%20the%20beach%20at%20dawn.jpg --- ###### [Check out Our latest insights on Optimism](https://www.centreforoptimism.com/blog) [![Centre for Optimism_Logo](https://www.centreforoptimism.com/hubfs/Centre%20for%20Optimism_Logo.svg)](https://www.centreforoptimism.com?hsLang=en) - [Home](https://www.centreforoptimism.com) - [Subscribe](https://www.centreforoptimism.com/subscribe) - [Why Optimism?](https://www.centreforoptimism.com/whyoptimism) - [What is Optimism?](https://www.centreforoptimism.com/whatisoptimism) - [The Optimism Principle](https://www.centreforoptimism.com/blog/theoptimismprinciple) - [Need Optimism?](https://www.centreforoptimism.com/services-and-workshops) - [The Optimism Workshop](https://www.centreforoptimism.com/workshop) - [Victor Perton - That Optimism Man](https://www.centreforoptimism.com/victorperton) - [Magnetic Optimism for Organisations](https://www.centreforoptimism.com/magnetic-optimism-workshops) ![Close Icon (3)](https://www.centreforoptimism.com/hubfs/Close%20Icon%20(3).svg) ![Search (2)](https://www.centreforoptimism.com/hubfs/Search%20(2).svg) ###### [Positive Psychology](https://www.centreforoptimism.com/blog/tag/positive-psychology) , ###### [Habits of an Optimist](https://www.centreforoptimism.com/blog/tag/habits-of-an-optimist) # Finding Silver Linings [A Practice commended by the Great Good Science Centre](https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/finding_silver_linings?_ga=2.29470143.1043655477.1587244813-1248501922.1583435962): "We all tend to ruminate on things that have gone wrong in our lives—a mistake we made at work, an evening that didn’t go as planned. We might even think about them so often that our lives seem filled with these mishaps and disappointments. Focusing on them too much, however, can cast a pall over our lives and even be associated with depressive thinking.  **Looking on the bright side even when things go wrong is a key component of optimism, which research links to lower rates of depression, a better ability to cope with stress, and more relationship satisfaction, among other benefits. **While finding the silver lining on a negative experience might (understandably) make you fear turning into a Pollyanna, many of us have a tendency to look on the bright side too rarely, not too often. This exercise is designed to help you achieve a healthier balance." ([read more](https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/finding_silver_linings?_ga=2.29470143.1043655477.1587244813-1248501922.1583435962))  # How to Do It 1. To start, list five things that make you feel like your life is enjoyable, enriching, or worthwhile at this moment. These things can be as general as “being in good health” or as specific as “drinking a delicious cup of coffee this morning.” The purpose of this first step is to help you shift into a positive state of mind about your life in general. 2. Next, think about the most recent time when something didn’t go your way, or when you felt frustrated, irritated, or upset. 3. In a few sentences, briefly describe the situation in writing. 4. Then, list three things that can help you see the bright side of this situation.  For example, perhaps you missed your bus this morning. 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